I want you to drunk text me. I want you to think about me. Please fucking think about me sometimes because the only thing I do is think about you
-(via nakedly)
aight so i wanna give a lil help to the women cursed to be attracted to men only cause i know most of us shitty:
1. if something feels off about a dude, 10/10 you’re right to trust your gut. dont fall for the trap of “nice before the pussy”.
2. if he tells you he doesn’t want commitment, BELIEVE HIM. dont think your pussy and neck game so skrong that you can “change him” then end up upset cause he still aint wife you a year later
3. set rules and limits for yourself before you start pursing anything romantic. tell yourself and him what you can accept and what you won’t compromise. if he has an issue, that doesnt make you a bitch. niggas will have you doing shit out of your nature then leave you feelin disgusted with yourself after they leave.
4. pay attention not to how he treats you but how he treats other people. most importantly other women in his life. its gonna tell you a lot about how he’s gonna act once he’s comfortable with you.
5. if there’s a girl in his life that he’s close with dont be overly paranoid but also dont be naive. SPECIALLY if he goes to her about yall problems.
6. people make time for what they want to make time for, point blank period.
7. do not ,under ANY circumstances, blame yourself for his negative behavior towards you. if you’re doing right by him and he still fuckin up, dont do more, LEEEEAVE. obviously you’re not what he wants or needs.
8. dont settle just to say you have a man. men gonna approach you 100 times a day. its better to be single than to be wit a dude that treats you like dirt. know your worth.
bonus. if he constantly brings up your friend in conversation, he tryna fuck your friend
